Pointing to vs Pointing at

In the evangelical church during my short lifetime, it seems that we have focused on pointing out the flaws of sinful life. 

"Don't do this, that, or the other." 
"You don't want to wind up like that."
"Look at the way she is dressed."

Instead of pointing at the problems in the world, we are to be pointing to the One who can resolve those problems, Jesus Christ.